Jeg får nogle gange at vide, at jeg tegner virkeligheden med en meget lyserød streg. Og det kan jeg kun sige ja til. Jeg overvejer derfor nogle gange, om al mit fokus på det positive i livet og i andre mennesker gør mig for virkelighedsfjern, for idylliserende, for naiv, ude af stand til at se den virkelige virkelighed i øjnene.
Men lige nu, for ca. 17 sek. siden, gik en ting op for mig. Når jeg vælger at give opmærksomhed til det gode, det sande og det skønne i livet – som ingen jo vil benægte også findes – så bygger jeg mit overskud op. – Vi bliver fx alle glade af at se hoppende lam, fine blomster, blå himmel, glade børn osv. (Selvom det er aldeles lyserødt, findes det ikke desto mindre.) Det overskud kan jeg bruge af, når jeg møder de sider af virkeligheden, der synes tunge og svære.
Dvs. at jeg ikke fornægter de negative sider, og jeg ved, vi alle møder dem. – Men der er vel egentlig ikke nogen grund til selv at gøre dem til en del af hverdagen – ved fx at se splatterfilm, omgive sig med grimme ting, bande mere end højst nødvendigt osv. – fordi vores overskud dermed er mindre, når vi står ansigt til ansigt med virkelighedens virkelige udfordringer.
Det var bare det, jeg lige ville sige. Hej hej.
Jeg skriver for at give dig, der er forælder, inspiration og redskaber til at få mere glæde og overskud i hverdagen. Så du lettere får øje på alt det fine, dit barn rummer.
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Det er da bedre at forsøge at se det positive i livet fremfor det negative, det gør unægteligt tingene lidt nemmere. Det er ikke altid, det er lige let, men noget jeg prøver at bestræbe mig på.
En kollega sagde i dag til en anden kollega (på en positiv måde) at han var sådan en der – hvis solen skinnede om morgenen – tænkte: gad vide hvornår den holder op med det, for det gør den helt sikkert. Han finder altid hullerne i oste i stedet for at glæde sig over resten og det er da ærgerligt.
Så jeg hepper på lidt mere af det lyserøde.
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