Negativt indtryk = frustreret udtryk, enten passivt eller aktivt!
Denne “ligning” er en enkel forklaring på mange af de negative udbrud, børn og unge har. På en almindelig skoledag i en almindelig 5A sad en dreng i matematiktimen og charmede nogle af pigerne. Nogle begyndte at tale om frikvarteret, og drengen spurgte læreren, hvornår det var spisefrikvarter: ”Når du ikke gør dig lækker overfor pigerne, tænker du på at æde. Nu er det sgu nok!”
Lidt efter skulle læreren tjecke, hvem der havde lavet lektier, og da drengen fortalte, at han havde glemt det, lød kommentaren: ”Det var, hvad man kunne vente af sådan en som dig!”
Ikke overraskende fik drengens sidekammerat, fuldstændig uforskyldt, et øjeblik efter en lammer med albuen. – Det negative indtryk, drengen havde modtaget af sin lærer, måtte skabe et frustreret udtryk – her aktivt i form af en hård albue i siden på den måbende sidekammerat. Andre har en passiv reaktion, hvor de dukker nakken og trækker følehornene lidt længere ind, så åbenheden overfor omverden ikke er så stor.
Der er altid en eller anden god grund til børns frustrede udtryk, og ikke altid, men ofte, skyldes det vi voksnes uopmærksomhed.
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