Du læste måske mit indlæg i går, hvor jeg skrev om nyopfindelsen herhjemme, der skaber samarbejde i familien – altså en konkret metode til at få forskellige opgaver løst, som fx at komme ud af døren, få ryddet op osv. (Måske enkle og små opgaver ja ja, men ikke desto mindre ofte kim til store konflikter)
Til den smukke Skt. Hans i går fortalte en god ven, at metoden sandelig også virker på hans skønne 2 1/2-årige datter. Han havde sagt, at hun skulle rydde op og blev mødt med et vrissent og bestemt NEJ. Men så var det, han kom i tanke om moi og det smarte kneb. Han sagde så sådan ca. disse ord til det dejlige barn: “Hvad for noget af alt rodet, vil du sørge for bliver ryddet op“, og hun havde glad og fro udpeget et rimeligt stykke og var fluks gået i gang.
Du får lige opskriften igen:
I) Forklar kort, hvorfor det er vigtigt, at I fx kommer ud af døren (eller at de kommer i seng, eller at der skal ryddes op i hele hytten osv.)
II) Spørg dem om, hvad de mener, de kan gøre, for at det lykkes. Børnene er geniale, kreative problemknusere, og de ved oftest præcis, hvad der skal til.
III) Gentag deres guldkorn, dvs. sig dem højt, så der ikke længere er nogen tvivl om, hvad der skal ske.
IV) Afslut evt. med et morsomt kampråb, et håndklap eller andet der bekræfter, at nu er det her altså noget vi er sammen om.
God solskinsdag kære læser.
Jeg skriver for at give dig, der er forælder, inspiration og redskaber til at få mere glæde og overskud i hverdagen. Så du lettere får øje på alt det fine, dit barn rummer.
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